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Nurturing
Family Relationships
By Jill Novak
If there is one word that describes
The Gift of Family Writing, it’s relationship—the relationship of family
members to one another through the written word. The written word has the
power to bless, bond, heal, guide, and give life, because written
communication is a gift from God. Only within the security of family
relationships do we have the freedom to express what’s on our hearts and
anticipate a response. Through interactive journaling, relationships with
God and our family members are strengthened.
Interactive Journaling
Interactive journaling is an exchange of words
between parents and children, siblings and spouses. This type of journaling
is nothing like the secret diaries we grew up with. Family members are
encouraged to minister to one another by writing in each other’s journals.
Interactive journaling allows words to be given away as gifts for the
purpose of building strong relationships; it’s a form of communication that
bridges the gap like no other.
Lately, as I have been transcribing one of my
children’s life stories or entering a word of encouragement in their
journals, I’ve wondered how I can convey the joy I feel when I know that I
am connecting with each one of them in such a profound way. I used to think
journaling was an option, but I’m not so sure anymore. If there’s no record
of your family’s walk with the Lord, what do your children have when they
leave home to start families of their own? Only memories! What does the next
generation have? A few impressions of their godly heritage—that’s all! When
I pondered this question these words came to me in the form of a poem.
No Words ~
by Jill Novak
I had a family but I kept no words
To describe the way their faces looked
Or the way they used to call my name
I try to remember but it’s all so vague.
My mind is old and cannot see
Beyond the veiled tapestry.
The life I know I must have lived
Beyond recall and ever dim.
I ask myself, how can this be?
Oh, memory, how you fail me.
I am often asked, “What
kind of words can we write in each other’s journals?” You can write words
about everyday moments, special times, Father's and Mother's Day,
birthdays, blessing parties, anniversaries, observations about life, words
of encouragement, apologies, words of healing, and the testimony of your
spiritual journey. I’ve highlighted the possibilities in The Gift of
Family Writing.
Copyright 2006 by Jill
Novak
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